Friday, October 21, 2011

“I Thought You Meant....?” My Paper on Cross-Cultural Communication

The following essay was written for my communications class that I took in the spring of 2010. I thought it was worth sharing. Hope you gain some insight...or at least it gets you thinking.

“I Thought You Meant....?” My Paper on Cross-Cultural Communication
      In the twenty-first century the world is becoming increasingly smaller. Only forty years ago it would take a North American three months of boat travel to visit the continent of Africa; now it can takes less then twenty-four hours by airplane. A trip to South America, by airplane, can take less then six hours. Even the obstacle of language differences between countries have change. The English language has become the universal language and its speakers can be found in many cities across the globe.

      With the speed of travel and the diminishing of the language barrier, North Americans feel confident communicating oversees. However, first-language English speakers can often find themselves being misunderstood, with sometime great consequence, by their international English listeners. There is more to cross-communication then just a common language. Effective cross-cultural communication comes from understanding the elements of communication, how culture, worldview, and value orientation impact the way one communicates, and demonstrating characteristics of competent communicators.
      Understanding the elements of communication will increase the effectiveness of cross-cultural communication. There are many elements involved with the communication process. The transactional view of communication, as discussed in Looking Out Looking In, describes communication as a transaction process where, at least, two participants exchange messages and there is understanding of meaning. The communication process begins with a sender (also known as an encoder) who puts the message into some kind of coded system. The message is sent through some type of media like verbally speaking or writing or non verbal means. The receiver then decodes interprets or gives meaning to the message. The receiver (decoder) also gives either verbal or non-verbal feedback to the sender. The nature of the communication process demonstrates that meaning is found in the decoder and not in the words or behavior of the sender (Adler, Proctor 15).   It is important for the sender to increase the mutual understanding between he and the receiver. Therefore when North Americans communicate cross-culturally they must seek to communicate in a way that the listener will understand the intended message. Even more, communicators need another level of awareness in order to communicate cross-culturally.
      Effective cross-cultural communicators understand that culture impacts communication. Michael Powell in the book, Express Yourself, states that “every society you encounter will have an unique and intricate repertoire of acceptable and unacceptable behaviors, facial and body gestures (or lack of them), and subtle ways of expressing or concealing thoughts and emotions” (7).  These are called social codes, and they derive from the society’s historical legacy that spans for over thousands of years and that has formed each country’s culture and national character (Powell 7). In other words, the way one communicates is determined by the individuals social code and consequently their culture.
      Culture is defined as a person’s “design for living” and the “acquired knowledge which one uses to interpret experience and generate behavior” (qtd. in Hesselgrave 102). D. Hesselgrave discusses that culture is composed of several layer, all of which determine the way the decoder will determine meaning of a message. The first level, at the core, is the ideology, cosmology, and worldview of the society. The second is value orientation and the third are institutions such as marriage, education, and law. These all lead to the surface, and final level, which is made up of the society’s observable behavior and material artifacts (102). Moreover, according to this explanation of culture, a persons worldview is the main reason for determining how that individual will send and receive messages.
      To further this point, there is an understanding that all of mankind is born into and reared into culture. In the book Communicating Christ Cross-Culturally, D. Hesselgrave says, “[that] by this process [enculturation] culture is made to be uniquely their own-the cultural reality becomes their reality over a period of time” (195). This reality or the way a person perceives the world is called a worldview (Hesselgrave 197). As discussed earlier, the way an individual perceives the world shapes the way he will send or decode messages. “The greater the difference between our [the senders] culture and theirs [the receivers], the greater will be the opportunities for miscommunication.”(Hale 63) Therefore, to effectively communicate one must understand the worldview of his respondent(s). 
      Sonya Hamlin in her book, How to Talk So People Listen, argues that awareness of the decoder’s worldview will increase understanding of the message. She writes, “even if the person you’re speaking to has learned to speak English, we need to recognize that we’re all still not necessarily speaking the same language” (42). Hamlin suggest for senders to consider the following key issues:
       Work: what’s expected; how do you move up the ladder?
       Technology: its challenges and differing experiences
       Money; power, influence; how to get them
       Education; How important it is, who could get it, what it took to get it
       Success; what that means, who can achieve it and how
       Social and class structure
       Religious beliefs and the role those played
       Government; its systems, its regulations, and the law
       Acceptable behavior for groups and individuals
       Independence and human rights
       Individuality and the right to exercise it (45).
Dr. Timothy Clinton and Dr. George Ohlschlager would also agree with Hamlin. From a counselor’s prospective they stated that senders must “be aware of the differences in worldviews and in the underlying value assumptions between” the sender and the decoder (617). The above questions and Clinton and Ohlschlager’s statement leads to the observation on value orientation and its impact on communication.
      Speakers must also recognize the differences in value orientations in order to communicate more effectively cross-culturally. Value orientation is the second layer of a culture. Thomas Hale, in the book On Being a Missionary, overviews general value differences between the West and East. The West orients around time, puts a high value on avoiding crises (crisis-oriented), and discipline and individual achievement are important (task-oriented). Where in the East, or Developing World, focuses on events rather than time (event-oriented), does not plan for future crises, and puts more value into relationships rather than performance (person-oriented) (62).  Being that their are several differences and therefor opportunities for miscommunication, to communicate cross-culturally there must be a general understanding and consideration of the decoders’ value orientations. Even further, there must be an understanding of ones’ own culture.
      In order to properly understand another culture, and communicate more effectively, one must study his own culture. James Henslin in his book, Down to Earth Sociology, says that once a person has learned a dialect (or have been enculturated) he “cannot choose to forget it, nor can he pretend to ignore messages he understood” (117). One cannot separate from his culture, therefore, one must be aware of how it effects his communication. This brings it back to the basic communication process and the idea of communication competence.
      Finally, in order to effectively communicate cross-culturally one must demonstrate the characteristics of a competent communicator. Competence in cross-cultural communication not only will help during but also before the communication process.  Adler and Proctor suggests that there are four characteristics for cross-cultural competence; motivation, tolerance for ambiguity, open-mindedness, and knowledge and skill. Because communicating cross-culturally can most often be difficult the speaker must have motivation to meet those challenges. As discussed earlier the speaker must be willing to study the culture and value orientations of his listeners. Tolerance for ambiguity and open-mindedness to new behaviors also can be doorways to understanding the other culture. “A tolerance for ambiguity make it possible to accept, and even embrace, the often equivocal and sometimes downright incomprehensible messages that characterize intercultural communication” (Adler, Proctor 33). The fourth characteristic of competence reiterates the main points of this paper. There must be a knowledge of the rules and customs of the audience and the sender must have skill in adapting their message accordingly. Practicing the characteristics of a competent cross-cultural communicator will help make the sender be more effective.
      In summary, there are several aspects of communication that need to be understood in order to be effective at cross-cultural communication. First, that understanding the process of communication and that meaning is not found in words but in the interpretation of the words. Secondly, the communicator more realize that culture with its worldview and value orientation impact the way one perceives the world. Therefore, because of this impact, the speaker must study the intended audience’s culture. Finally, the sender must demonstrate characteristics of a competent communicator by being motivated and open-minded. In this way effective cross-cultural communication is more likely to take place.

Work Cited
Adler, Ronald, and Proctor, Russell. Looking Out/Looking In (13th Edition). Boston:
            Wadsworth, 2007.
Clinton, Dr. Timothy and Ohlschlager, Dr. George. Competent Christian Counseling. Colorado
            Springs: Waterbrook Press, 2002.
Hale, Thomas. On Being A Missionary. Pasadena: William Carey Library, 1995.
Hamlin, Sonya. How To Talk So People Listen: Connecting In Today’s Workplace. New York:
            Harper-Collins Publishers, 2006.
Henslin, James M.. Down To Earth Sociology:Introductory Readings (5th Edition). New York:
            The Free Press, 2003.
Hesselgrave, David J.. Communicating Christ Cross-Culturally (2nd Edition). Grand Rapids:
            Zondervan Publishing House, 1991.
Powell, Michael. Express Yourself! The Essential Guide to International Understanding.
            Guilford: The Globe Pequot Press, 2007.
Tarr, Del. Cross-Cultural Communications (2nd Edition). Springfield: Global University, 1996.


Monday, October 17, 2011

Total Reliance on the Grace of God

Just a quick thought...I'll slowly get back into writing someday :-)

Remember that "we are wholly dependent on the sovereign grace of God. There is only one key to successful ministry, and it is in God's hands. In the light of sovereign grace, we work, we pray, and we do not lose heart." -Total Church by T. Chester

Psalm 127
Unless the LORD builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.
Unless the LORD watches over the city, the watchman stays awake in vain.
It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil;
For he gives to his beloved sleep.

It can be frustrating at times in ministry, relationships, and personal growth when there is little or no results; but we are at the mercy of God and must trust in his will and sovereignty. It is by grace that anything is accomplished or changed. I'm clinging to this week and praying that God helps me to fully grasp this concept. 

Sunday, May 22, 2011

Neighborhood Barbeque

 After church today the families in church gathered for a barbeque on Blake Street in Lewiston. Now this isn't really the first place someone thinks to have a family oriented BBQ but that's exactly what God wanted us to do. Most of you know I am part of EABC's extended church in downtown Lewiston. We have named ourselves simply the Downtown Church. A few new families that have recently joined our church live in neighboring apartment buildings on Blake street. These families have such a heart to reach their neighbors and asked our church to help them host a BBQ in their park and that's exactly what we did today.
 We had several neighborhood kids and a few parents come out to the BBQ. We had organized games and prizes for the kids and plenty of food. There was a lot of laughter but more importantly relationships were formed and acquaintances turned into friends. I am so excited to share these pictures with you. I think they can serve as a way to give you an idea of the area in which the Downtown church is serving and to put faces to the kids we are ministering to.
I appreciate your prayer for us as we serve as missionaries to this part of the world. Please pray that we would continue to connect with not only the children but with their families as well. My hope and mission is that God would be glorified through is church and that the people of Lewiston we find God to be their ultimate joy.
Playing Capture the Bunny

We had a mini pie eating contest with prizes for everyone

My pastor, Ramsey, his wife Kristen, & their youngest, Zuzu

Getting ready to play capture the bunny


Saturday, May 14, 2011

Water Baptism-Diving Into God's Family

     My small group recently asked me to teach them about water baptism and why Christians are baptized.  I thought I would share my thoughts with you and hopefully bring a deeper understanding to this church practice. I don’t claim this article to be an extensive or complete look at water baptism. This is simply the teaching I deemed appropriate for my small group that has developed over the past two years of my own personal study of the subject.  I regret that this is only a listing of points but I suppose it makes for an easier read. I would like to discuss this with you further if you like.  I believe water baptism is an important part of a person’s conversion to Christianity and I hope that you will take the time to search the scriptures yourself and come to a conclusion on the subject. 


POINT #1: Water baptism is practiced in historical and modern day Judaism
-       Baptism was a sacramental ceremony to symbolize purification and the removal of sins.
o   Read Leviticus 16:23+24 The priests were required to bath themselves before entering the Holies of Holies
o   Read Mark 1:4+5 John is calling people to repent and be baptized before the coming of the Kingdom
o   God used a great flood to cleans the Earth
-       Baptism was sometimes used as an initiation rite to consecrate a change and/or conversion
o   Noah and his family went through a type of baptism when they passed through the flood and God assigned them to re-multiply the Earth
o   Converts to Judaism today are baptized by immersion

What is your experience with Baptism?

POINT #2: Water Baptism does not bring salvation
-       Read Matthew 23:25 Jesus told that Pharisees that water will clean the outside but it does not clean the heart (it is our hearts that needs saving) 
-       Read Hebrews 5:9 Jesus is the source of eternal salvation
-       Read Romans 10:9-13 Paul tells us that if you believe in your heart that God raised Jesus from the dead and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord then you will be saved
o   The resurrection was a sign that God the Father excepted Jesus as a sufficient sacrifice/punishment for all of human kind’s sins
o   Proclaiming Jesus is Lord is saying that you submit to him and make Jesus ruler in your life
Do you believe that God raised Jesus from the dead?
Will you submit to Jesus and let him rule in your life?
If, “yes,” then continue.

POINT #3: All Christians should desire to be baptized
-       Read Matthew 28:18-20 Jesus commands us to be baptized and to baptize others
o   “In the name of the Father, Son & Holy Spirit” is a way of identifying that God is the one baptizing and not a human. God is the only one who can forgive sins and deem someone righteous. This also denotes that God is the one you are to follow since you were baptized in his name (see 1 Corinthians 1:12-15)
o   See Acts 8:26-39 This is a story of a Ethiopian asking to be baptized after his conversion through Philips teaching
-       Read Matthew 3:13-15 Jesus was baptized at the age of 30(ish) then began his ministry
o   Refer back to point #1: God the Father consecrated Jesus as his “beloved Son”. Immediately following Jesus’ baptism (see Mark 1:12) he was tempted and then began is ministry of proclaiming the gospel; this denotes a change from private ministry to public ministry. Perhaps we can anticipate temptation and a movement into (or greater power in) ministry following our baptism.
o   Refer back to point #2: Jesus did not need to be cleansed/repent of sin
-       Read Romans 6:3- 7 Baptism is a symbol of identifying with Christ in his death, burial, and resurrection. Our “old self” is crucified with Jesus so we are no longer enslaved to sin. If united with his death, then we are also united in his resurrection and sin will have no dominion over us for we are under the grace of God. We are now slaves of God who are sanctified (and being sanctified) and we will receive eternal life (see Romans 6:20-23)

POINT #4: Baptism bonds you to a community; the church of God
-       Read Romans 5:9-11 Not only are we saved from the wrath of God but we are also brought into right relationship with (we are reconciled to) God to where we are no longer called enemies of God but children of God; we are adopted into his family (see Romans 8:14+15)
o   Through Christ’s work on the cross and his resurrection, believers (of all ethnicities, background, and nationality) are unified into one family, also known as the body of Christ
o   Read 1 Corinthians 12:13 We were all baptized into one body and thus should be unified, recognize our function, exercise that function without desiring another, and value functions that are different from your own
-       Read 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 When sin entered the world, relationship between mankind and God was broken and relationship between Adam and Eve (and subsequently all of mankind) was broken (see Genesis 3:16 & 4:8). Since we have now been reconciled to God we now have the power (and motivation/duty) to be reconciled with others. God has extended a huge amount of grace towards us therefore we are expected to show grace towards others.
o   Read Matthew 6:9-14 Jesus warns us to forgive others just as we have been forgiven by God
o   Read Romans 12:10-13:7 and Colossians 3:12-15 Paul instructs us to be unified, strive to live in harmony, and to serve other Christian. He also instructs us to care for anyone who has a need and to be a respectful earthly citizen
o   Read Mark 12:29-31 Jesus says that it is most important that we love God and love our neighbor (which he tells us is everyone)

Final Thought/Summary: Baptism is a symbolic ceremony, which all believers are commanded to partake in after conversion. Baptism symbolizes the believer’s unity with Christ in his death, burial, and resurrection and their new life in him through grace. It is a public declaration of faith in the Gospel of Christ and the induction into the family of God.

If I was baptized as an infant, should I be baptized again? Refer to point #2: as an infant you were not a believer therefore at some point you had to convert, then we can refer to point #1, 3, and 4 where it states that baptism is a proclamation of conversion and union with the family of God.  Baby baptism is really more like a ceremony to dedicate the baby to be brought up in the ways of God but it doesn’t secure or bring salvation. Jesus was also dedicated to God when he was a baby (see Luke 2:21-24) and Jesus also received water baptism as an adult, therefore setting an example to us.